As if dating wasn’t hard enough as it is, try with three children and an ex-wife who is as reliable as planting a seedless watermelon and waiting for it to grow. Some women find it attractive to encounter such a responsible dad because in the laws of nature that would make me a good candidate to father their future children. But the reality of the matter is that dating is not easy with everything that I already have going on and the last thing I need are more children. Don’t get me wrong. I absolutely adore kids. If they weren’t so expensive I would have more. 🙂
I am seriously considering a vasectomy which would surely eliminate any thoughts of “this could be my next baby daddy”. Or I could just get it done and not tell anyone that I am now shooting blanks. All joking aside I think a $1000 investment for a vasectomy is a lot cheaper than the next 18 years of room and board or even worse…child support.
“It’s time to do me”
I have heard this saying many times in the past and I am about to apply it but with one minor adjustment.
“It’s time to do me and my kids!!”
After a long man to man conversation I had last night with some buddies. I came to the conclusion that I need to stay away from any emotional webs and keep things on a STRICTLY friendly level. I know I can be a huge flirt at times and I apologize before hand to any girl who might misconstrue my flirting and hear wedding bells in the background. I have a long path to walk SOLO for the moment until I am able to get my life settled. This being said. I know the right person is out there somewhere and could come at any moment even if it’s not the most opportune time in my life.