A while back I wrote an article titled What Do Women Want. I was reading through it again today, more than two years after I originally published and was reminded that this is a question I will never be able to precisely answer. As a matter of fact, I don’t think anyone ever will. With that in mind, I came to the conclusion that I can only answer one question with certainty.
What do I want from a woman?
The title of this post is “What a Man Wants From a Woman” but I can only speak for myself. Mind you the title of this post uses the word MAN and not Boy or Guy. There’s a lot behind calling yourself a man! I have definitely reached a point in my own life where I have a pretty good sense of what I want. I refuse to conform to anything less than what I truly want. I am not scared to put this out there and make it known. Ultimately if you settle for something less than what you really desire in life you will never be truly happy. There will always be something missing. Yes, you might get hurt along the way but you will never know until you try and I say; Try and try again until you succeed!
Here’s a couple things I find instrumental to having success in a relationship.
Compliment My Already Established Life – I want a partner in crime. I have made my life and would love for you to be a part of it.
Know What You Want – I think all of us deep down know what we want, but few of us are able to take down certain walls and obstacles which obstruct our line of sight.
Respect – I know respect is won and must be maintained, but I am looking for someone who understands the concept of respect.
Emotional Support – Yes, men are made to be MANLY but this does not mean we have no feelings. Having someone in your corner can really help to overcome that next hurdle in life.
Drive and Passion – Someone who is driven and passionate in and about life. Someone who I won’t have to pull along nor will they have to pull me along. We work in a synergistic fashion.
Strong Sense of Commitment – In today’s world everyone is so quick to throw in the towel and search for the elusive greener grass instead of watering their own garden. Invest in what you have and watch how it will pay off!
Brains and Wit – Wow! There is nothing more intriguing and sexy than someone who can hold an intelligent meaningful conversation.
God-fearing – Someone who is on a similar spiritual plane as me. God has been instrumental in my life and would have led me to this special person.
I hope this article gets to the person who needs to read it and at the very least gets your wheels turning. Don’t ever settle! Don’t be afraid to chase what you want! We only get one chance at life and we must make the most of it!
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