Your Future Queen

The Fickle Heartbeat

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Shared by Jonah. See Part 1 and Part 2.

You may have met me already, or maybe not yet.  But you will know me soon when you look for me. 

You may realize that I’m easy to find.  I’ve been with you since childhood, we’ve grown close over the years.  I’m within your circle of friends and I already know your quirks and whims.  But for some, I remain hidden until the right time.  I can come in a whirlwind romance or appear in disguise as someone opposite of your ideals.  Whichever the case is, you will see me.

You will see me but you will have me only when you choose me.  You may have felt before that you are an option; women of your past had the power to accept or decline your love.  Remember that you have that choice, too.

I don’t mind…

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Quote of the Day

Diligence is the path up the mountain of knowledge. Hard work is the boat across the endless sea of learning. – Uknown

Word of the Day


“To grow old and grey together; to stay too long in an occupation, or to decay, lose respect, fade away.”

Pronunciation: kon-sen-nes-SHARE-ruh (loosely.)

Relinquish Control – Such a Scary Thought

I’m sure a lot of my readers have been hurt in the past just like I have. Surpassing and healing can take time, but it comes. I did not sleep all night some thinking last night and came to the conclusion that one of the biggest fears of loving and allowing ourselves to be loved boils down to the fear of relinquishing control. Love implies vulnerability. When you love someone you make a conscious (sometimes unconscious) decision to allow that special person to see the real you at it’s most fragile and vulnerable state. It is human nature to fear the unknown, but love is all about exploring the unknown together. Don’t be afraid to search for that love! Hiding behind work or social status is simply a way of feeling you have some type of control of something since love can be so unpredictable. I for one rather take the risk of finding my one true love instead of living in my comfort zone full of regret.

Don’t be afraid to be who you truly are!